Build Your Sex Arsenal

Feb 21, 20193 min read

After Meeting Someone Online — Part I

Photo by Charles Deluvio on Unsplash I was recently listening to a TEDx talk (like I do a lot), and there was a speaker speaking about...

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Feb 13, 20192 min read

Love Is An Action

Love is making the effort over and over and over again… Photo bynappy.cobywillpower A lot of us go around in this world thinking about...

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Feb 6, 20192 min read

Fantasies vs. Realities

It’s good to be aware of the difference. Photo bySharon McCutcheononUnsplash Sexual liberation comes in all forms, but there’s one thing...

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Jan 22, 20193 min read

Finding Your Path to do the Sexuality Work You Desire

For anyone who says that they don’t need advice in their sex life, they are dead wrong

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Jan 2, 20193 min read

The Biggest Lesson I Learned in 2018

As long as I’ve been studying sex, relationships, and sexuality, there was something that was ingrained in my head over and over again.

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Nov 27, 20183 min read

5 Easy (And Sexy) Ways to Get Intimacy In During the Holidays (For Singles)

I used to get so tired of people (framily included) who constantly questioned me about aging while single

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Nov 21, 20183 min read

5 Easy (And Sexy) Ways to Get Intimacy In During the Holidays (For Lovers)

It’s the little moments that count, so here’s 5 easy things that you can do with a lover during the maddening holiday season.

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Oct 9, 20182 min read

It Is What It Is…

Sometimes when we think we know the answer and we don’t become expansive, we can think that this relationship might not be a good fit

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Oct 2, 20183 min read

What's Your Sexual Appetite?

Love it or leave it?...for now... [pic image: food buffet] Last week, when Jet Setting Jasmine and I were talking about Religious Trauma...

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Aug 28, 20182 min read

Expect the Unexpected

Have you ever been in a situation where you were surprised by something someone said or something someone did? How did it make you feel?

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Aug 21, 20182 min read

I Will vs. I Won’t: Positive vs. Negative (Sexual) Talk

When it comes to sex, “I won’t” usually looks like “I can’t” or “I don’t” or some other version of negative talk

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Aug 6, 20184 min read

Avoiding Love Bombs!

Seduction is a matter of influence, while love bombing is a matter of master manipulation

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Jun 26, 20182 min read

3 Strikes & You’re Out?

For those of you who know me, you know that I tell folks that I go by the “3 Strikes Rule” when it comes to my sex life

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Jun 12, 20182 min read

Asking The Right Questions To Get What You Want

There are so many answers and interpretations for questions that are simply “yes” or “no” and this can be especially problematic...

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Jun 4, 20182 min read

The Choices You Make For Your Sex Life

We make choices about our health habits, our work life, our family life, our social fabric, and in our sexual lives

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May 28, 20182 min read

3 May Masturbation Tips!

For those of you who have been in the loop, you know that May is Masturbation month!

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Apr 11, 20183 min read

3 Steps to Take When You’re Doubting Your Relationship

Here are a few ways to dissect your relationship, see if it’s congruent with your partner, and then move on

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Mar 26, 20183 min read

3 Amazing Period Sex Hacks!

Keep these sex hacks handy next time you or your lover’s period comes around.

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Mar 15, 20183 min read

6 Rules to Providing Good Quality Sexual Service

Whenever I want to please a lover, I always want to make sure that every experience counts

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Mar 5, 20183 min read

Sex According to the Basic Emotions

How do we look at sex when it comes to our different emotions?

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